30+ Fun Date Ideas in St. Louis Besides Dinner + Drinks

It’s the month of love and right now I am loving the idea of making date nights more interesting. I love dinner and drinks but sometimes it’s fun to do something a little different! You know? My husband and I have been together for eight years (we just celebrated our “officially dating” anniversary) and we try to make date nights a priority. One of my biggest tips if you are dating someone new or keeping the spark alive after a decade together, don’t forget dates don’t just have to be at night! Breakfast dates, day dates, heck you can make a date out of running errands. But this list is a bit more fun :)

We love a little competition! Date night at Rec Hall is the perfect spot to play games and see who’s got the skill!


Here are 25 ideas to inspire your next date night in St. Louis!

  1. Rec Hall: Nothing like a little competition to make for a fun date night. Rec Hall in St. Charles features giant games (think life size Connect 4, giant pong), a bar and lots of space to hang out. 

  2. Third Degree Glass: On the third Friday of the month they host an open house style event where you can watch glass blowing and explore the space. You can also take a class and make your own creation! 

  3. See some art: There are no shortage of amazing and FREE art museums in St. Louis. Check out the St. Louis Art Museum, CAM, The Kemper or The Pulitzer. 

  4. Go Team Go: Rooting on your favorite St. Louis team is the perfect way to spend a date. Blues, Battlehawks, Cardinals or City SC game (check out City 2 for cheaper and more accessible tickets). 

  5. Arcade Games at Up Down: Bring on the nostalgia with all the fun arcade games at Up Down in the Central West End. Split a pizza when you’ve exhausted your energy at DDR.  

  6. Picnic in Forest Park: When the weather is nice there is no better date than a picnic in Forest Park. Pick up your favorite carry out and pick the perfect spot on Art Hill. 

  7. Go Line Dancing: It’s time to two step with your love! You can learn to line dance at Diamond Music Hall in St. Peters for a fun night out. 

  8. Pottery Hollow: This won’t quite be the scene from Ghost, but painting pottery together can still be very romantic. Pick a mug or a bowl and get those creative juices flowing. 

  9. Painting with a Twist: If painting is more your style, check out one of the many date night options at Painting with a Twist (plus it’s BYOB). 

  10. Drive In Movie Theater: Dinner and a movie might be cliche but a drive-in movie is a whole different experience. During the season you can see movies from the comfort of your car at Skyview Drive In in Illinois. 

  11. Cooking Class: The couple who cooks together, stays together. Learn to cook fresh pasta or pretend you are abroad and learn to make a full Spanish meal at Fennel Cooking Studio

  12. Take a Walking Tour: With the smart folks at the Missouri History Museum, get to know St. Louis a little better with a walking tour. They offer options for neighborhoods like The Hill, Cherokee Street, Downtown and more. 

  13. Catch a burlesque show: The Boom Boom Room in Downtown St. Louis offers dinner and a very exciting show. Their burlesque shows is a dinner theater experience with dancing, comedy, food and drinks. 

  14. Take your relationship to new heights: Face any fear of heights at Ryze Adventure Park in Maryland Heights. The star of the show is the 4-story adventure tower. It also features ziplining and ropes course. 

  15. Paddle Boating in Forest Park: Row around the beautiful lake at Forest Park for a date on the water. Head to the Boathouse to pick up your rental. They also have kayaks and paddleboards.

  16. Act like a Kid: There’s no cooler museum in St. Louis than the City Museum. And many people in St. Louis haven’t been since they were a kid. So grab you’re date and relieve the fun of exploring the caves and crazy exhibits. 

  17. Hidden Valley: Whether you ski, snowboard or just want to take it easy and tube down the slope. Take advantage of the winter months at Hidden Valley. 

  18. Gondola Ride in Grafton: The drive on the river road is a perfect date in itself, but take it to Grafton and then head up the hillside in the gondola for beautiful views and a winery at the top. 

  19. Candle Making at Candle Fusion: Creating something together is a fun way to get to know one another. Candle Fusion offers the opportunity to create candles and a signature scent at locations in St. Charles and in the City Foundry in St. Louis.

  20. Explore a new neighborhood: Take a stroll on historic Main Street in St. Charles or explore antique row on Cherokee Street. Pick a new neighborhood and walk the blocks together.

  21. Cupping and Tour at Kaldi’s: If you love coffee, you can schedule a cupping at Kaldi’s and get a tour of their roastery. 

  22. See a show in Grand Center: Whether you love jazz and check out live music at Jazz St. Louis or a Broadway show at the Fabulous Fox Theater, or maybe a performance at the Grandal Theater, there’s something for every one. 

  23. Explore the Mural Mile: Along the Mississippi River in Downtown St. Louis snakes the flood wall and covering that concrete wall is the incredible work of graffiti artists from around the area. Its where Paint Louis is held each year and artists legally graffiti. 

  24. Take a swing: From Putt Shack at City Foundry to Top Golf, there are several fun places to play a little golf on a date around St. Louis. 

  25. Bowling at Saratoga Lanes: Did you know this Maplewood bowling lane is on the National Register of Historic Places? Use that little trivia to impress your date while also beating them in a game of blowing.

  26. Brew Hop Tour: St. Louis has no shortage of amazing breweries and if you want to responsibly visit a few of them the folks at Brew Hop Tours are going to be your best friends. The tours usually stop at four different breweries.

  27. Stop and smell the flowers: There’s nothing like a stroll through the Missouri Botanical Garden. Warm up inside the Climatron and don’t forget to bring some change to feed the fish.

  28. Improv Shop: Laughter and love go together like peanut butter and jelly. Spend an evening laughing at the Improv Shop. You can even take a class together!

  29. Let’s take a hike: Get outside for a day date at one of the many parks in the area. Check out Castlewood, Powder Valley or Cliff Cave Park.

  30. If you are set on dinner and drinks, make it an adventure: Cocktails at one location, apps at another, followed by dinner at the next location and then dessert. A few ideas:

    • South Grand: Start with drinks at The Gin Room, appetizers at The Vine Cafe, followed by dinner at Pizza Head, dessert at Gelateria and then finally end the night with drinks at Kenny’s Upstairs.

    • Webster Groves: Start with a glass of wine and cheese board at Robust, dinner at Olive and Oak, grab a sweet treat at Le Macaron French Pastries and end the night with cocktails at Clover Wine Bar.

    • Lafayette Square: Start with craft beers at Square One Brewery, appetizers at Vicini Pasta, dinner at Polite Society and then finish with dessert and cocktails at Bailey’s Chocolate Bar.

Go team! Spend a date cheering on your favorite St. Louis sports team!

Now I’d love to hear from you, tell me what’s your most memorable date??

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